Story of being Rejected

We all have been rejected sometimes in our lives,
Rejection by Boss
Rejection by job
Rejection by Courage

And the only idea coming to 99% people's mind

Rejection by love

Yes ladies and Gentlemen, if you ever have participated in this game of love, then you must admit that you all must have seen your true colors(yes 'yours', stop Blaming others)
Colors of compassion
Colors of Clemency
And the best
Colors of exercising your power over some one

Whether you have been dumped or you are the one who has Dumped, you know what I mean, the best part of love is to get surrendered in it, is to offer all your ego, in somebody's smelly feet............

It sucks, but without it nothing  can ever be enjoyed..........

Now we have many types of people in love, or should I say people with many colors, but one color Ladies and gentlemen I will never forget............

People who never surrender in love
People who weep in silence but show others that they are not affected
People who are insensitive in first look, but will never let you know they have a soft corner
People who always Dump and never get Dumped

If you find someone possessing these rare but all qualities, then you have the same issue like I do..........

Now you must be thinking, how does this matter?

I have met many who are insensitive, many who are not caring, then how this person which his shades can be of a rare occurrence..........

He is ladies and gentlemen and I have points to prove myself(only that they are not written in point format, I consider you people intelligent enough):

What you see is what you believe, you may have seen many people who are insensitive towards you, and in this case you need to come out of the well and see, that it was not always about you but they have their own choices, their own wishes for which they may drop their level of emotional security.

But if you seriously know someone who apart from giving those awesome, attractive vibrations but at the same time is like, this( and I repeat the qualities):

People who never surrender in love
People who weep in silence but show other that they are not affected
People who are insensitive in first look, but will never let you know they have a soft corner
People who always Dump and never get Dumped

Mostly, I find them quiet, until they fully trust you(to increase one of their qualities)

Have you find someone like this
Good if you have, because these person have the capability of taking passions to their extreme
 And Good also if you haven't found anyone yet, because they hurt a lot, as you always feel you are the one who is getting sucked continuously, and still want to be sucked more......

Like Dracula, these people if once sucked your energy, it's difficult to leave them.......

They are vampires
Believe me................................. 

But then why do they weep in silence............

Well that you must ask nature, or it may be that
Not to surrender has its own price

But still you can't enjoy them, because they will always rule you, but never allow you to rule them, and you still feel that being loved by them is a privilege

Dragon and its significance

Believe it or not, we all have dragons inside us..........
A hideous one and a good one........

Have you ever felt
1) The feeling of embarrassment before doing something you want to do?
2) The feeling of being defeated by destiny?
3) the feeling that no body understands you?

Then your BAD dragon is taking control over you and you need to get rid of it............

Follow my dragon series and who knows I can help you?

Journey begins now.....................

Save Us

Before you start thinking, just let me clarify.............

This post is definitely about artists of Raghurajpur in Orissa.

So here is the deal, I have always remembered the incident of my grandmother buying spinach, from the wizened lady, coming to our lane, directly from the her small farm. She was an old woman, having her farm near to our city. Amma used to say that she was the one with the most convenient rates and the most fresh spinach.

I have given this reference to you just to introduce the concept of removing unnecessary barriers from the process of Production and Sales.

Farmers are suffering because of middlemen, so are the artists..........

Its not like all of the middlemen need to be slayed(of course I am joking, not a murderer), but there need to be a process of direct confrontation.
Sometimes it is being hindered because it saves time, as the buyer will not be interested in wasting his time for futile works(as in case of literary agents), but for those artists who are now proficient in their art, there is no need of a middlemen.

But they still exist, why?

Because they know where to sale,
They know where the best market is,
They know who will bargain less and who will more
They take all the transportation and other non artistic and business related efforts to themselves.


Saving Artists is not only a process of saving them but also saving us, where we really can become self sustainable in every effort..........

I mean take this in life how much easy it will be, if we do not need anybody else to accept us, to have a confirmation of what we do is right :)

How far would you go to get closer to someone you love?

How far will I go?

Does this matter?
Does love need the confirmation of  being physically intimate?

Or the topic is about emotional intimacy?

A great question which may not have any relevancy to this context, or it may be all that mattered.

But again question is same:

How far would you go to get closer to someone you love?

I write it in the most simple format, let this be the question and I provide an answer, or an answer according to my view, the way I see the world, as question is quite subjective

I have been in love four times(and believe me I have to delete every time I write these number, as it keeps on increasing, but yes removing mild romantic crushes, just four times), and physically I think I have been able to follow them relentlessly up to any extent(not that I am a stalker), but i haven't, because they were never far away, or they did not want my presence, then how can I answer this question?

Well I can because, at each and every time, when I was in love I have sacrificed myself, have sacrificed my identity, and everything that was not materialistic but was mine.

Is that not enough?

It is believe me, because we all know how it feels to be a beggar for somebody's love.
Because we all know how that person becomes so much important that all those things for which we are fighting till now become worthless in front of him.
Because you sacrifice your whole identity just to have a glimpse of your love.

Isn't that going far....

It is, but I have gone more far than that, and you know how?

I have after every heartbreak, after every rejection, after every time I broke, have gathered all my pieces and take the risk of loving again.

That is how far I can go, and I know, so do everybody else, nothing new, nothing peculiar, just a simple facet we always ignore.

Where you want to go

To heaven, or to hell...........

It depends if heaven is a place where something that is pious only happens, full of restrictions, and hell is a place where every rule can be broken.............

Where you want to go.........

To a place full of happiness, or to a place full of surprises, that you can't predict.........

Where you want to go...............

Towards angels of morality or Demons of Transparency and Instincts

Where you want to go.............

To a society or to a untamed place of  not being normal(or the most normal place because being wild is more normal, RIGHT?)


Where My Friend?
Where??????????????????????????????

Stereotypes everywhere

I am tired of these humiliating, disgusting, tiresome definitions of the classical human behavior... ..........

Tired of looking civilization in a  natural and unnatural way, not to be said that civilization is itself unnatural.

Tired of defining everything on the basis of what have been said previously, thinking it may be tried and tested, not knowing the conditions in which a thing has been simulated may have changed a long before............


But we have stereotypes for everything, I am not saying that they are WRONG, but to have a limited view of world, and trying to fit everything in that stereotype is definitely not the way.................

Grow up people, please grow up and let other not like you live :)


NOW THIS IS GENERALIZED AND YOU CAN DEFINITELY FIT THIS ON YOU

Because we all have lived as per stereotypes.....................................................

How much we hate Diversity........

"Unity in Diversity"

Is the most common phrase that I have heard, since I was a small child. And have always liked this idealistic promotion, but never knew it was idealistic.

Whether you agree or not we hate Diversity, now most of you will not agree with me, and defend yourself, by giving examples of colors or different cultures that exist here..............

But really is this is what you can only think of, is this the only thing you can imagine when it comes to accepting diversity...........

Is not Diversity is in everything that we have called till now restrictions, conventional lifestyle, our taboos, and a constant struggle to change everything not fitting in the usual life style that we encounter daily.
Are we ready to unify those mentioned concepts in our so called "civilized society"?

Are we ready to have something new?

Are we really ready to accept diversity?


The answer is NO, Because

We are fearful that our culture will get defiled, forgetting that its diversity that has shaped our culture like this

We are afraid that we will have to deal with something which was awful for us till now, forgetting that a perception can always be changed

We are afraid my friend, Yes we are afraid................................................